Positive Healing

An emotional wound is either where healing will come into your life, or exploitation will get a hold of you.

People First, Second and Third

If you work in the business of antiques it is ok if things are your bag. What if you work in social work? Not so much. Then it would need to be people who come first.

Narcissism Definition

Narcissism Definition Pulled from a web site.  This is an important list of the traits of narcissism.  I would add one that is important in my mind.  That is an inability to do the opposite of these traits regardless of the outside evidence or lessons. Almost everyone can be in some of these traits, if […]

Modelling Errors

Modeling Errors Failing to method act the other person completely in the beginning Refusing to admit positive benefits of the model Not changing your filters and values to match the model Becoming judgmental after modeling when attempting to integrate the information, therefore throwing out important points in favor of your previous beliefs. Forgetting where you […]

Your own Senses and your Internal Agenda

Your own Senses and your Internal Agenda Your own senses and what you think is good or bad is designed by what you want to feel in the first place in your internal agenda.  This reality is very difficult to teach. Your sensory acuity (How accurately you see, feel and hear the world around you […]

Your 3 Easy Steps To Thankfulness

Your 3 Easy Steps To Thankfulness Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on email Share on print When we look back over our lives there are many people who influenced us.  Have you really noticed what you learned from and about your Dad?  If you look at your hand movements, voice […]

Happy Father’s Day!

Happy Father’s Day! Share on facebook Share on twitter Share on linkedin Share on email Share on print When we look back over our lives there are many people who influenced us.  Have you really noticed what you learned from and about your Dad?  If you look at your hand movements, voice tone or what […]

Purpose Bigger than Romance

Purpose Bigger than Romance Every week I field calls from clients who originally came to me for various motivation, however at some point they are calling about their relationships.  Here is some food for thought. Julie Nise is currently writing a new book on the subject.  I am excited to read it when she is […]