If you find yourself in negative situations and actually enjoying the drama you should realize that you like the fact that someone else is being blamed so you can avoid blame. Sometimes this isn’t even conscious.
Wisdom in dealing with the family you came from means that you accept the motives within the people who raised you and that the people with whom you were raised. Good, bad or indifferent.
If you are trying to make someone feel guilty who is an adult, you are the problem (assuming you are not their coach teaching a conscience or awareness that is missing).
One of the challenges that a hypnotist faces is in teaching the fact that no one makes you feel any certain way because of what they are doing.
Denial can be about ourselves not wanting to admit guilt or blame in some way. Denial can be about not wanting to admit we were wrong about how we saw someone else.
If you haven’t had a technique done on your first- you can’t possibly understand what it is like when it works well.
When people ask questions out of nowhere that are based on some type of fear, there is no way to answer the question without it making them create the fear in their mind of what they think is the truth. If theyf ear so much that they cannot notice the premise of their question is false, then you are not obliged to cave in on their assertion. This is also true of questioning yourself.
Do you sometimes get consumed with anxious, panicked, or nervous feelings?
In the children’s book “Who Moved My Cheese- An Amazing Story to Change and Winning by Spencer Johnson, four friends- Hem & Haw, Stiff and Scurry lived at a maze.
It really doesn’t matter what you do, which discipline you chose, or what your intention. At this point someone will go online and fight with you about it. Someone will deceive people about your character. Someone will tell the opposite story of what happened when they were your client.