People First, Second and Third

If you work in the business of antiques it is ok if things are your bag. What if you work in social work? Not so much. Then it would need to be people who come first.

Narcissism Definition

Pulled from a web site. This is an important list of the traits of narcissism. I would add one that is important in my mind. That is an inability to do the opposite of these traits regardless of the outside evidence or lessons.

Modelling Errors

Failing to method act the other person completely in the beginning.

Your own Senses and your Internal Agenda

Your own senses and what you think is good or bad is designed by what you want to feel in the first place in your internal agenda. This reality is very difficult to teach.

Keep Plowing Forward!

It really doesn’t matter what you do, which discipline you chose, or what your intention. At this point someone will go online and fight with you about it. Someone will deceive people about your character. Someone will tell the opposite story of what happened when they were your client.

The Power in Learning, Rehearsing, and Training

One way to view hypnosis and NLP is that it is a process of training far more than any type of therapy. One view held by a few experts is verbal therapy as it is seen in many types of counseling and psychotherapy may be a bit of a myth.

6 Ways to Stay Positive through Change

People are stressed in a lot of areas right now. The pace of change has more speed than our nervous systems ability to keep up. Even if we stay ahead of the changes and waves, the ability to move forward, to feel progress, to believe effort is worth it requires some positive evidence in our lives.

Coping With Change

How many of you have noticed that when you grow and change for the better your family and or friends can fight it all the way because of simple fear of the unknown?

Letting go of Self-Sabotaging Habits

People are always asking how to prevent self sabotage in life after making changes. Well, a frequent truth is that often the culprit that sabotages people is actually never creating an adult strategy for social situations, and relationships that is elegant and mature.

Interrupting Navigate Anchors and the importance of it

Anchors can be useful for the future or un-useful. An anchor is a sound, sight, taste, touch or smell that happens when you are in a certain emotional state of mind or mood. The more unique the sensory experience and the more intense the emotion the more likely that the trigger of the emotion will be repeated when the trigger happens in the future.